haha. don't be silly. while i do agree that things do fall into a "rut" when you've been with someone for so long, i absolutely think thats when you should force yourself the most to make a kiss like this happen. you should think of it as a new challenge. i bet your wife would be quite a happy camper if you surprised her with a sexy kiss like this!
PS. I love your profile picture. I think it's great!
which pic? the one on here or the one on 20SB?